Who Told You So?

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Sometimes we are limited because we are encumbered with this heavy guilt of shame. These “heavy loads” some have deliberately put upon themselves, and immediately cut their unprecedented future short by doing so. I hear some say, 'Because I'm an ex-prostitute, therefore I can never date a decent man? It's because I'd aborted in my youth, hence being barren after 15 years of marriage? Because I am an ex-convict, getting a good job would be hard for me? Because I have a out of wedlock, so my expectation of getting married to a single man is little to none? Because My father had told me I would never amount to anything, hence me being a failure in my business, and everything I lay my hands to do? Because I am a product of child molestation so I am sure no one really wants me?' And many more excuses we try to justify ourselves with—but my question to you is: WHO TOLD YOU so? I remember the first man Adam, after he’d eaten the forbidden fruit, found out he was naked, and hid himself when he heard the voice of God in the Garden of Eden. God called out to him, and Adam’s response was, “I heard your voice and hid myself because I was naked.” Do you know what God’s response was? God said, “WHO TOLD YOU thou was naked?” God is Omniscient, meaning He knows everything, (He knows what we will do even before we do it); and because Adam had a change of perception of who he was to who he believed he should be, therefore his opinion shifted his position! (Genesis 3). I'm asking you now: Who told you, you cannot make it? Who told you, you will never amount to anything? Who told you because you got married and now has , your has ended? Who told you being married, limits your potential in life? Why are you waiting to be married before pursuing your dreams? Who told you just because you have a baby or babies out of wedlock you cannot date and be married to a man who's never had a baby before or vice versa? Who limited you? Whose report are you conforming to? Who has shackled you up in this little box you've been confined to? Who? Just because you made a mistake does not hinder your wings from still soaring? Take the shackles off your feet this New Month and walk in the liberty God has given you. If God hasn't put you in a box, why should you? Your opinion of yourself is what others see and believe, so change your perspective of yourself so others can accept your true identity! Whom the Son of man sets free, is free indeed, therefore set yourselves FREE!!! Do not let your past define who God has called you to be! Have a heart full of thanksgiving for the liberty God’s given you inspite of what men think should be done to you. Go forth this New Month soaring like you have no boundaries whatsoever! Happy New Month! Debbie Kuks ©2015 Debbie Kuks Words All Rights Reserved www.debbiekuks.com Facebook: Debbie Kuks. Twitter: @DebbieKuks Instagram: @debbiekuk


  1. Chiamaka Emmanuella Onuoha

    March 1, 2015 at 10:12 am

    Thanks Debbie wish u the best and fruitful month,love this writeup

  2. tyra bello

    March 1, 2015 at 10:12 am

    Dope as ever… huge inspiration

  3. Shobande Keymon Yomi

    March 1, 2015 at 10:22 am

    Debbie thanks. What a Writeup

  4. Grace Aigbokhae

    March 1, 2015 at 11:35 am

    Thanks Sis Debbie.

  5. Eunice Aigbokhae

    March 1, 2015 at 11:42 am

    Great words. Thanks Debbie.

  6. Sandra chinasa Deborah

    March 1, 2015 at 5:09 pm

    Debbie thanks a lot. U always inspire me

  7. Olubunmi Bello

    March 1, 2015 at 5:45 pm

    Inspiration of the day

  8. Omowunmi

    March 2, 2015 at 8:44 am

    I so much love this thumbs up Debbie…

  9. Omowunmi

    March 2, 2015 at 8:44 am

    I so much love this thumbs up Debbie…

  10. Louis Offor

    March 2, 2015 at 9:44 am

    And that’s exactly what i’m doing; going forth and soaring high. No stumbling block can slow me down! Happy New Month….#Debbie!