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Something really stupid that my younger sister did. She has always been flirty, because she knows she's . She's a taller version of me. I noticed something about her a while back. It seems as if she likes going after guys that I've either been with, or that I'm interested in, When I was dating my ex, she was always tagging him in her pictures or messaging him. At one point, I felt I was just overreacting,I brushed that aside. There was this instance again that she had with a friend who was asking me out. That day, she called me out of the blues at night and said she was at his place. I angry, but I let it slide. It has been a while I heard from her. I got angry because something is wrong and everyone has been keeping me in suspense. And right now, the crazy girl is pregnant for another person. Guess who? My baby daddy! I am so mad. What should I do? Your Truly Zainab.  


  1. Segun

    December 22, 2014 at 7:38 am

    Hmmm…it better u let her delivered safety and 2 of you should be with d man and if you (zainab) haven’t gv birth to d man leave d man for ur sis

  2. Akinlabi olawumi

    December 22, 2014 at 7:48 am

    Leave the man for ur sis and find anoda one

  3. Chiamaka Emmanuella Onuoha

    December 22, 2014 at 8:05 am

    if u re his wife,he will cum bk to u just have faith in God

  4. Anonymous

    December 22, 2014 at 8:22 am

    Your sister needs serious spanking, but dear, if your husband is unfaithful and he chose to sleep with your sister no matter what lead to it. Pls leave that home, bcos you will never trust him, neither will be happy each time you see your sister. Life in that house will be torture 4 you. Your sister is sick, she nids spiritual and psychological help.

  5. Nnenna Ugwuonah

    December 22, 2014 at 8:46 am

    My dear the truth is that it is not just ur sister’s fault but that of the guys u have dated as well cus any man that can agree to sleep with ur younger sister knowing fully well that she is ur sister is not worth dying or crying for. So in as much as i blame ur sister i also want to tell u that u have been meeting the wrong guys so forget about that guy and move on with ur life and also pray to God to lead to the right person because when u meet person he would love u and stay with u no matta what.

  6. Louis Offor

    December 22, 2014 at 9:07 am

    It’s quite obvious your sister is the assigned tormentor-in-chief in your life. What should you do? Ok, this isn’t an easy one to handle. She is your sister right? And she is family? How do you avoid a family member without hurting their feelings? Quite difficult i must say. But in truth, i’m very sure you are the type who doesn’t know how to keep personal secrets from others (in this case; your sister), at least there are some secrets that should be kept between two persons in the world; yourself and God. Well, it’s okay if you say the man she is now pregnant for is your baby daddy and not your husband. The only thing you can do now is to wish her well and help her through the pregnancy in anyway you could, and remember it is your niece or nephew she is going to bear, so don’t wish her harm or anything of sort, but from now henceforth you MUST create a gap between you two, if possible relocate to another city different from her’s. You should make contact with her only when it is necessary. If you follow this advice i believe everything will be okay with you. Goodluck!


    December 22, 2014 at 9:43 am

    keep a little distance from your sister since the man innvolved is not legaally married to you…just a baby daddy…do whaat makes you haappy…dont see her as a competition cause seeing her that wway is what makes those men find her more innteresting thaannn you aare….move away from her aand improve on yourrself. Be successful in your ownn way thereby not clinging your success to any man or being better than your sis

  8. Nworgu Uchenna

    December 22, 2014 at 10:21 am

    Phew… This is a difficult one….it’s quite complicated too…the best that you can do is to assist her and not abandon her…. She needs all the help you can offer throughout the period of her pregnancy…the guilt on her part would be enough to chastise her. I believe the best you can do is help her and give her breathing space thereafter.

  9. Edet Archibong Edet

    December 22, 2014 at 10:49 am

    You saw the early warning signals yet you did nothing. Well the unwanted has happened. All i can tell you is be strong for ‘winter’ is coming.

  10. Lucky

    December 22, 2014 at 11:00 am

    Your sister na wetin we de call longer throat.Since you notice your sister you suppose to have restricted or block her from your ways n activities.Is never too late because of you can still sit and trash out the who issue.If she is willing to remain with the man then you have to make up your mind and move on with life.Your sister no try at all.

  11. Adewumi Taofiq

    December 22, 2014 at 1:18 pm

    U just Leave the man for ur sister becuse u re not meant together dat y it happen like dat and look for ur own man

  12. oloye adeniran

    December 23, 2014 at 6:34 am

    the say family matters a lot, but this is really gone too far, and your sister is indeed and your sister not literally though, but the fact is that she is kinda nuts to hurt you so much, maybe you were too nice and all, well in this casse i suggest you leave your baby daddy to your sister and try to keep your distance at least just to prevent your from going nuts!! which could lead to serious result which you might not like to go down the road 🙁 …….. so dear zainab this is my advice