6 Relationship Red Flags

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It’s exciting and fun at the beginning of any relationship, but there are also a lot of signs that can indicate it’s not going to be a good thing in the long run. The thing is to recognize these signals and get out before someone, probably you, gets hurt. It’s important to understand that you will most likely have to kiss a few frogs to find your . It’s only and a good thing to date a bit to help discover what’s out there and what you really want in a partner. The thing is not to drop your guard and miss red flags in the quest for the best guy for you. • he lives at home, it’s probably not a good thing for a number of reasons. One is that he’s not really ready to grow up. An exception could be that he’s taking care of his mama or pops, but otherwise it could be a signal they’re taking care of him. • He doesn’t invite you to his place. Chances are he’s hiding something, even if it’s just a dirty place. He’s embarrassed about something or hiding something. • He’s moving in too fast. What’s the hurry? He may be too needy or uncomfortable being alone. Some guys need a woman to take care of them. Take some time to get to know each other before you move in together or become exclusive. • He talks a lot about his ex. A lot of problems here, including that it may mean he’s not over her. And if he’s talking trash, that means he’ll do the same if you split up. Also, it’s a sign that he hasn’t taken responsibility for any part in the break up. Beware also of any unresolved anger that he could end up taking out on you. • He’s too attached to his parents. It’s great he loves and respects them, but he also has to be able to stand on his own and be able to make his own decisions. • He’s just gotten out of a relationship. Don’t let a man use you to fill a void. There should be time between relationships to reflect and heal. Basically, don’t be the rebound. Just take your time and let a relationshipdevelop before jumping in full speed ahead. Source: Farah Gray

10 Comments

  1. chris martins

    December 14, 2014 at 12:33 pm

    life is a game play or part well. Love is a feeling don’t be engolfe

  2. chris martins

    December 14, 2014 at 12:37 pm

    life is a game play or part well. Love is a feeling don’t be engolfed and blind folded by it.

  3. chris martins

    December 14, 2014 at 12:39 pm

    be wise in ur dealings with man in all ralification. peace!!

  4. Nnenna Ugwuonah

    December 14, 2014 at 3:02 pm

    Thanks for d info. I have learnt something today

  5. MATHIAS CHUKWUDI

    December 14, 2014 at 4:27 pm

    too many laws in reelationship self

  6. Adewumi Taofiq

    December 14, 2014 at 5:47 pm

    Nice write up, thanks for the message

  7. Nworgu Uchenna

    December 14, 2014 at 6:40 pm

    Hmmm….. Ild go with this sha….though other signs not mentioned should attract equal attention.

  8. Anonymous

    December 14, 2014 at 9:17 pm

    Hmmm, i like it.

  9. Lucky

    December 19, 2014 at 2:55 am

    It’s obvious that you will likely have to kiss a
    few frogs to find your prince.Relationship is very sweet n interesting especially when you meet that perfect man or lady that tend to comprehend all the nitty gritty about it.Although life is not a bed of roses which mean sometimes you have to come across both the bad,the good and the ugly.Like i use to advice the youths who are coming up and the ones that are into one form of relationship or the other,try to know the person you are dealing with,so that it will be easier for both of you to result your differences when it happen.And once you notice that your partner is not that same person you ues to know,just quit.

  10. Lucky

    December 19, 2014 at 2:56 am

    It’s obvious that you will likely have to kiss a
    few frogs to find your prince.Relationship is very sweet n interesting especially when you meet that perfect man or lady that tend to comprehend all the nitty gritty about it.Although life is not a bed of roses which mean sometimes you have to come across both the bad,the good and the ugly.Like i use to advice the youths who are coming up and the ones that are into one form of relationship or the other,try to know the person you are dealing with,so that it will be easier for both of you to result your differences when it happen.And once you notice that your partner is not that same person you use to know,just quit.